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Living with Purpose Now … a worksheet
As you answer the questions from this worksheet it is imperative that you NOT censor yourself or hold back on writing down any goal, dream or wish.
This worksheet is not designed to become a 'to do' list for you, nor are you to feel obligated to fulfill any thing listed here. The purpose of this worksheet is for you to capture a better view of all that is interesting to you (and possible for you) to experience or have in your lifetime. That's all - so give yourself time to dream, and have fun!
- 5 Things I value most right now. (i.e. community, honesty, justice, time with family, personal organization, etc.)
- 5 things I need most to improve my life today:
- At home I need:
- At work I need:
- From myself I need:
- For my health I need:
- 5 important things I can accomplish in the next 12 months.
- 5 places I would love to see or visit within the next 3 years.
- 5 important decisions I am ready to make about myself and/or my life right now - today! (Be very, very, very specific - you may want to answer this one last.)
- 10 things I am most proud of about myself and/or my life to date.
- The types of people I feel my best around and would do well to surround myself with
- What I believe I am here to accomplish (or contribute) to the world. (Think broader than career related ideas only - Respond in 20 words or less!)
- What matters to me most in my life. (Do not leave blank, if you are not 100% sure, write down what you think it might be)
- The top 5 behaviors, traits, or qualities I will leave this world being known for in my lifetime.
- This year, how I rank the following in order of priority:
Family
Professional Career
Financial Independence and/or Security
Health, well-being and peace of mind
Spiritual connected-ness and/or Religious faith
Friends/Community
Bravo to you - you made it through the worksheet! Now, keep your answers close to you as they will remind and motivate you toward what is most important to you this year.
The Power of Journal Writing
Journal writing is a powerful and useful technique... but many of us have major blocks when it comes to the thought of writing ... "I'm not a writer!"... "what would I write??"... "I don't know where to start!!"... "what do I say?"
Does this sound familiar? These were a few thoughts running through my head when I first heard about the benefits of journal writing and contemplated giving it a go.
Once I started my journal, it became addictive... in the very best sense!
How to get started:
- get yourself a large notebook, writing pad, diary, personal journal, or set yourself up with a folder on your computer, that is specifically where you will do your writing
- you can hand write or use a computer. Handwriting is more flexible because you can do your journal writing wherever you want e.g. in the park, in the car or wherever you get the urge -- sometimes you are not anywhere where you can access your computer
- find a place where you can keep your journal where no one else can see it or find it -- your journal is very private!
- your journal writing is for your eyes only! You are not writing an academic article or an assignment or something that is going to be read by any other person but you!
- when you first start, your writing may feel stilted or awkward... just keep going and soon you'll find thoughts will begin to flow and you'll begin writing almost automatically. Sometimes I don't think I will write any more than a couple of lines... but once I get going, it begins to flow and sometimes I end up with a couple of pages
- it doesn't matter if you write only a couple of words or a saga! Length isn't important
- in the beginning, I found I was trying to make my writing look good and read properly -- because your journal writing is only for you, don't worry about grammar, punctuation, neatness, making sense, or sentence structure. The key is to just write, write and write!
- it's beneficial to date every entry e.g. Wednesday 19/3/08. This is useful when you want to reread your journal; you can see how you were going at a certain time in your life compared to where you are now.
- in the beginning, it can be useful to set aside a certain period of the day where you do your writing; this isn't always possible because of commitments, schedules and responsibilities... but try to do some journal writing each day
- journal writing is a very personal experience... therefore there is no right or wrong way for doing it... you will find your own way and it will be perfect!
